If a man gives $100 to a woman and says to her, “Become betrothed to me
with this,” - and before his eyes she throws it into the sea or into
fire, she is not betrothed. Might one think that, since she is
obligated to repay, she agrees to marry but is testing him for anger
management? - No!
A
certain man was drinking wine in a shop and a woman came and said to
him, “Give me a drink.” He said, “If I do, will you marry me?” She
said, “Give it me!” - This means nothing and she is not betrothed.
